Hello Muddilyn, you sound very sad and worried in your post, but also resigned as to how your life is right now. From what you're saying, I take it you're worried that your husband might have some early signs of dementia, and it's not being picked up? It's my understanding that this can be very easy to be diagnosed in the early stages as symptoms can often be mistaken for 'just aging'. I would stick to your guns and see if you can find a doctor who will listen, perhaps one who is more experienced with older patients and specialises in this area. As you say, you're in the house all day and live with him so have a better idea of what's happening. Perhaps keep a diary of things, that might help you to be taken seriously by the next doctor you see. Trust your instincts, Muddilyn, you are the person closest to him, and your worries should be listened to properly.
