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Husband so detached and cold
Give it a couple more years until your daughters 18 or it will be so damaging to her .
Besides , you don't know what the problem is but it might be nothing to do with you he might just be too depressed or stressed to put in any effort right now.
Wondering to though have you changed , put on wait , nag , dress different, only talk about house, bills and things that have to be done and all that ? lt's very common once people hit the comfort zone but often we don't even realize. That's all stuff that changed me with my w.
try not to pressure him and try to make some changes if some of those things are you lately,.
Anyway , thing is it's only been 4yrs , high pressured job the last two , that alone is big. But a marriage is worth fighting for at least a few more years especially for your daughter.