Hello Selim, when we like someone or have a crush on them, they may recognise this and be infatuated, although we may not know whether or not they have a partner, but even this doesn't stop them smiling at you, however, this may not be an indication they want to go out with you, it's just being friendly.
To block and then unblock her may come across as confusing and to suggest she get an AVO probably isn't the best solution, because she may then be wary of contacting you.
When we go through a handful of counsellors, we expect them to be able to help us straight away, unfortunately, this doesn't necessarily happen, because once you mention what's troubling yourself, it's just not a simple answer, they need to know more about the symptoms, it's about understanding your personality and from one appointment to another, there may be something new that hasn't been mentioned before, so this may complicate the situation and how your therapy in another direction, making you feel as though nothing is helping you.
It's like wanting a cup of coffee but once served up to you, it does meet with your expectations and makes you feel disappointed, so was it the brand of coffee, the temperature it was given to you or perhaps the cup or the size of the mug.
Sometimes what we want has to be approached another way to feel some success.
Best wishes.
Geoff.
