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Feeling very confused by boyfriends behaviour
Thanks for starting this thread.
I understand how confusing your boyfriends behaviour would be for you when you are trying to cope wioth anxiety and depression and negative thoughts.
Some people do not like to talk things through and they find talking things over to be annoying.
My partner finds it tiring when he thinks we have finished a topic and I am still talking about it.
You feel your boyfriend does not appreciate you and cuts you off when he does not want to listen.
I wonder has he behaved as you describe for most of your relationship or have these behaviours appeared just recently?
It is important you look after yourself . Is it possible to find a time when your boyfriend is relaxed and will listen to you so you can tell him how you are feeling?
Do you still have feelings for him?
Thanks for writing your post. I am sure there will be others reading your post who can relate to what you are experiencing.
thank you for your input. My bf has been this way for most of our relationship and we have talked about these issues on many occasions. after talking we get along great for a while but then things go back to how they are now. things did seem to be improving between us for a while but its very up and down. i do still love him but im finding myself wanting to spend less time with him and feeling anxious when we are together. i dont want our relationship to end and i do still love him but im feeling very worn out from all the ups and downs