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Feeling defeated

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Hi I’m new here I separated from my partner a year ago and in that time I’ve tried to meet her expectations but unfortunately about a month ago she started seeing someone else and I really wanted her back. So I tried and tried and about a week or two ago she left him to try and start over with me but we had a bid argument lastnight and I don’t know what to do I love her so much and want to fix everything please help me
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Hi Breezy104,

Welcome to the forums.

Relationships are tough and it can be difficult to let go of them. Especially if we feel like we can fix it.

Have you guys considered a couples counsellor? They would be able to help both of you work through any issues and clarify what you're both feeling.

Kind thoughts, Jess

Hi jess

thanks for replying yeah I have been trying to go to counseling but during this time it’s hard plus we have a daughter we have to work around

Hello Breezy, if this is something that keeps arising between the two of you, then it would be a good idea as Jess has said to have a third person arbitrate so a decision can be made.

These expectations need to be accepted both ways, one way will only cause some disharmony, but you both love each other and that's great.

Take care.