Hi all,
firstly I should start by saying I've been living with depression for about 3-4 years...
With treatment and meds its been under control for quite some time, however recently I can feel myself slipping away again...
In the past few years I've had a job loss, marriage breakdown, another short term relationship breakdown, house sale and trying to keep it together is bloody hard work...
Being single as an early 40's guy for the first time in over a decade, I did what most men my age do.....slept with heaps of women....
I guess it was a short term replacement covering grief...
However recently in the past 2yrs I've met a woman that is fallen in love with, however I the past couple of weeks ....a friend of hers caught me on tinder....admittedly it was totally innocence reasons....myself and a work colleague were trying to find another colleague's profile....
Totally childish I know, but now it's cause her to just shutdown, won't see me, won't talk to me, has blocked my calls.....everything....except email..
I can't handle this.....sadly the harder I try to fix things the worse I'm making things...
Shes makes me a better person and I'm a happier person around her...
We would talk or text on a daily basis....I feel totally lost...
I don't know what to do...
She has asked for "time and space" which I'm struggling with...
I don't know what that means and she is not forthcoming with anything other than saying I'm annoying her...
I hate letting things just drag out...if there's a problem I'm determined to try and fix it...
She just shuts down and hoping the issue just goes away...she hards confrontation...
As each day passes I'm getting more confused, agitated and feel like I'm slipping again...
Any assistance would be greatly appreciated...
