Dear Eagles Supporter~
Welcome to the Forum. I can see how in your situation another perspective could be a help. A worrying thing to find.
I can say what I think, but you have to bear in mind I don't know your family, or how things have been in the past -so I could be well off-track.
Firstly taking any message out of context is risky. As a very silly example I was standing in my front garden - a nice shady place with lots of trees, when I heard a strange female voice say "What do you think you are doing? come out here at once!". Turned out to be a lady walking her dog without a lead, I was somewhat surprised at the time.
As an ex-police man I've been referred to in similar - or even less friendly - terms in the past 🙂 Maybe your brother has other problems that you don't know about.
Having said that I would talk with your mother. I'd do it for a couple of reasons.
Firstly to ascertain the facts and know where you are - better than just wondering and treating others with suspicion.
Secondly to see if there is something you could be doing to help matters, either with family problems or other matters.
I hope all works out
Croix
