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Hi Everyone,
Sometimes it is great to have a place where you can just have a chat about something not related to your mental health. So here is the opportunity to have a general chat about anything and to maybe find a "friend" to help make the day feel brighter.
Occasionally I connect with people on the forums and a lovely friendship develops, but it may seem to others that they are not welcome to join in the conversation. This is not the case.
So here is an opportunity for new friendships to happen.
Maybe you would like to share your favourite holiday destination, or place you would love to visit. If you could have any animal as a pet what would it be? What is your favourite flavoured ice cream?
For me right now I would love to be somewhere warm! We have been experiencing some rather cold weather where even the chooks water is freezing over during the night! Somewhere with a beach and warm sea to swim in would be lovely!
My favourite ice cream flavour would be Jaffa in one of those crunchy cones! I would love to be eating one down at that tropical beach paradise followed by a lovely fresh coconut and maybe a beach massage as well.
I will be dreaming about this as I drive around today for work listening to Meatloaf. Maybe I should be listening to The Beach Boys instead, but I don't think I have any of their music on CD.
Hope you all have a great day,
Cheers from Mrs. Dools
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Hello Philip
I do agree with you about resisting sadness or any painful emotion. Letting it wash over you rather than trying to block it in some way is actually easier. It certainly uses less energy than a fight. Having said that, of course I recognise it's not easy. I guess it's part of the fight or flight reaction. As you say, accepting the good stuff is almost automatic, no need to decide what we want to do with it.
And music evokes so much emotion. I really like listening to all sorts of music. Choice tends to depend on my mood at the time but can also change my mood.
Going back to fight or flight, if there is no struggle how did mankind grow to such knowledge. Without struggle do we have anything of value? I'm not talking about this world's goods but of our inner selves. If we don't struggle to find meaning and to grow will we always be stuck in the grip of our emotions? It is from our desire to know that we have reached where we are. Bit of a catch 22.
Mary
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Hello everyone,
Music is wonderful therapy. So is dancing for me, not that I am very good at it! Ha. Ha. A few years ago I joined a wonderful group where we were taught traditional dances from around the world. Some of the music was haunting, some very joyful, and other tunes were very rhythmic. If there were words accompanying the music, most were not in English.
I attended this group while I was recovering from Chronic Fatigue which scrambled my brain. While everyone else was going left, I was going right and bumping into people. While the ladies were going forward, I would quite often decide to go back wards.
The teacher tried to show me 8 repetitive steps for once dance thinking I might be able to get the hang of that, but my mind and body had other ideas. After step three I totally forgot what I was to do next!
In the end the group accepted that I was just going to dance to my own beat when my brain was scrambled. We all had a lot of laughs, I was laughing the most! I do miss those very special afternoons!
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Good morning everyone so great that this thread has been refreshed!
I too have missed the conversations 🙂
Spring warmer weather, newly budding trees filling with bird life ,a hint of warmer days in the garden brings a smile doesn't it.
The days are moving along as they do new ideas for what to plant in the verge garden and flowers popping up all over, spring bulbs sprouting bringing anticipation of colour and shapes. One of my favourite seasons. I recently for the first time got to hold a newly hatched chick, so tiny, uncertain and beautiful it mesmerised me watching it as it found its feet and in no time was heading towards the food and water. Made me think of myself and how I had somewhat forgotten the importance of doing what comes Naturally in my life, no self help books or laws or rules just being who I am and being comfortable in growing naturally.
The days when the clouds part for a time is when we need to make the most of this ,very healing to just be.
sending warm spring wishes to you all
stay happy
Mangof 🙂
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Hi Mangof and everyone else reading,
I am really noticing SPRING this year. It is astounding how life is regenerated and the season is full of renewal and promise of brighter things to come. Nature certainly puts on a spectacular display.
Recently I was taking one of my clients to the shops. I chose a different street to travel along so she could view the gardens. One the way home we took a different route again. Just a couple of extra minutes travel time, and it made all the difference to this lady whom I know loves gardens and plants.
This morning I stood for a while and observed the cat watching the female canary gather bits in her cage for nest making. I try putting in a variety of things she may be able to use. She didn't like the feathers I bought from the craft shop, she has tried to toss those out of the cage!
I also enjoy watching the birds in the bird bath outside of the kitchen window. I like to let the chooks out when I am gardening. One in particular hangs around where I am digging to see what goodies I uncover for her. Just observing our 4 chooks is interesting to see how they interact and behave.
It is amazing how birds and animals know so instinctively what they need to do to survive. Somewhere in all the business we create each day, we seem to miss out on so much!
Cheers all from Mrs. Dools
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Hello Philip
Enjoyed your post. I believe we need our spirituality to get us through life in the most profitable way to ourselves. It's not a selfish or self-centred profit. It's about doing the best we can using our innate spiritual gifts and instincts to guide us. I meditate using Christian Meditation and also some mindfulness, though not much of this. I also read philosophy and spiritual books. Without my beliefs I would be indeed lost.
Meditation keeps me in touch with myself, with my inner God, keeping me grounded for much of the time. I also fall over, so to speak, and end up in a ditch which hard to climb out of. But as many of us say, we do get up again. Without my faith I think I would stay there without the strength to act positively.
Much of the meditation teaching and mindfulness is akin to the Buddha's teaching and walk hand in hand. The statement you give is indeed bold and I agree that the more we fight it, deny it and complain, the worse it gets. We learn love and compassion during our various journeys mostly because of our life experiences.
Can't write more at the moment but would love to pursue this.
Mary
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Hi Lauren. Pip here. Feel a bit of a fool, but have learned from the mistake. A few days ago someone from the U.S.A (don't ask me how) contacted me on fb with compliments about how beautiful I looked. Never had this before, so took a few days to reflect then (stupidly) replied. So began 2 days of endless, empty compliments about how he admired me, thought I was the most gorgeous woman he'd ever seen. He reckoned he was divorced with a son who he adored. There was even a whole fb issue about how he was a retired part time manager of a huge mechanical company. Anyway, then came the 'bite'. How did I live, did I own my home outright, was it mortgaged etc. I told him I had no money, was living on a pension in a tiny house in a village. Next morning, all contact was blocked. Obviously a load of rubbish. As I said, never been 'scammed' like that before, laughing about it now, but the moral of the story is, ignore everyone you don't know who contacts you via fb. Can't believe there are people who fall for this type of thing. I've heard stories about it but never had it happen to me. The way it was done was so professional. I was angry with myself, but over it now. Just thought I'd share so others can be made aware. Hope this story is posted.
Thanks for letting me 'vent'. Pip. xx