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BeyondBlue Welcome to the BB Social Zone - Guidelines for posting in this section
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Hi everyone, This section of the Beyond Blue Forums is a little different to the others, as you may have noticed in looking at the discussions. Elsewhere on the Forums, we discuss some pretty heavy topics: mental health issues, thoughts of suicide, t... View more

Hi everyone, This section of the Beyond Blue Forums is a little different to the others, as you may have noticed in looking at the discussions. Elsewhere on the Forums, we discuss some pretty heavy topics: mental health issues, thoughts of suicide, trauma, abuse, relationship breakdowns. Here is the place to come to get away from that and have a bit of fun. Distraction can be an important tool to draw on if you're finding yourself overwhelmed by distressing thoughts and feelings. As this is a section for respite from heavier topics, we will relocate any discussions about heavier topics to a more suitable section of the Forums. Happy posting! Beyond Blue

Kazzl The BB cafe
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The BB cafe is open for business! Welcome all to a new chill and chat place for everyone on the forum. The BB cafe is whatever you want it to be. There are comfy sofas, tables and chairs, coffee machines, a kitchen stocked with everything. There's a ... View more

The BB cafe is open for business! Welcome all to a new chill and chat place for everyone on the forum. The BB cafe is whatever you want it to be. There are comfy sofas, tables and chairs, coffee machines, a kitchen stocked with everything. There's a pool outside, a bbq area, an annexe with comfy beds for a quiet sleep, tv, dvd, books and whatever else you would like to have here. Most of all, it's a place to meet friends and fellow travellers for a bit of company. Talk over problems, tell jokes, share your day, escape into a world of your making. Grab a coffee and pull up a chair ... So, with a nod to the wonderful Carole King (Hard Rock Cafe) ... Now if you're feeling just a little bit lonely Don't sit at home just mopin' Come on down to where the friendship flows freely You know the door is always open At the BB cafe Come to the BB cafe They will help keep your blues at bay At the BB cafe Important Message from ModSupport: The main intention of the BB Cafe is to encourage light conversation. Please look after your fellow community members by nuturing the BB Cafe as a place to escape some of the more pressing issues in life and save those conversations for personal threads.

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Kazzl The BB cafe
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The BB cafe is open for business! Welcome all to a new chill and chat place for everyone on the forum. The BB cafe is whatever you want it to be. There are comfy sofas, tables and chairs, coffee machines, a kitchen stocked with everything. There's a ... View more

The BB cafe is open for business! Welcome all to a new chill and chat place for everyone on the forum. The BB cafe is whatever you want it to be. There are comfy sofas, tables and chairs, coffee machines, a kitchen stocked with everything. There's a pool outside, a bbq area, an annexe with comfy beds for a quiet sleep, tv, dvd, books and whatever else you would like to have here. Most of all, it's a place to meet friends and fellow travellers for a bit of company. Talk over problems, tell jokes, share your day, escape into a world of your making. Grab a coffee and pull up a chair ... So, with a nod to the wonderful Carole King (Hard Rock Cafe) ... Now if you're feeling just a little bit lonely Don't sit at home just mopin' Come on down to where the friendship flows freely You know the door is always open At the BB cafe Come to the BB cafe They will help keep your blues at bay At the BB cafe Important Message from ModSupport: The main intention of the BB Cafe is to encourage light conversation. Please look after your fellow community members by nuturing the BB Cafe as a place to escape some of the more pressing issues in life and save those conversations for personal threads.

Ember_Glow Ruminating, Surviving, And Releasing Pain (in a hopefully healthy way)
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Physically writing helps me proccess me things. So I always have a notebook and pen/pencil on me incase something happens, but also just in general as I forget stuff easily and so need to write it down if I want to have any hope of remembering it lat... View more

Physically writing helps me proccess me things. So I always have a notebook and pen/pencil on me incase something happens, but also just in general as I forget stuff easily and so need to write it down if I want to have any hope of remembering it later. But yeah, writing helps me proccess and realise what's ruminating and what's helpful. I write a lot of poetry, but also I do what I like to call word "vomits" where I basically just mentally spew all my thoughts (both negative and positive) onto the paper. Once it's out of my head, I can see it much more clearly and make sense of it and I find it really helpful as it just gets it all out. So whenever I start to hate myself again and wanna self harm I just get out my notebook and "vomit" it all onto the paper instead of carving it forever into my body. This usually works but sometimes the pain and longing for dead loved ones just gets too much and then I can't get it out of my head fast enough and it builds and builds and eventually explodes and that's bad, because then I can't control it and if it's in public then its wayyyy worse and then I'll regret it for life and ruminate forever on it and yeah. So writing really helps me, but sometimes it doesn't and all I can do is silently scream in bed alone at night, or go on walks around the block (preferably in the cold because then I can rug up with layers of physical protection, but also cos the cold wakes me up and helps me see more clearly). On those walks I usually call a friend or listen to music so I can either get everything off my chest, or just drown and suffocate my sorrow (in a good way) so I can get myself together and go back to my family pretending everyting is fine (cos my siblings don't rly know about my mental healt struggles, so I have to pretend I'm fine for them).

hope4joy 5 letter game
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Hello! one of my favourite word games is where you are given five letters and you need to make a sentence from it, making one word that starts with each letter, in that order. The sentence can be as correct or quirky as you wish, don't worry about gr... View more

Hello! one of my favourite word games is where you are given five letters and you need to make a sentence from it, making one word that starts with each letter, in that order. The sentence can be as correct or quirky as you wish, don't worry about grammar! It can be serious, silly or ludicrous. You then leave five letters for another person. These five letters can be a five letter word or just five random letters, anything goes. It often helps not to think about it too much or it starts to get hard! For example: S T A R T somehow the amazon re-forrested tremendously or, G H J K L giant hairy jovial kangaroos laugh or, M F H B E microscopic follicles harmlessly brew elixirs and here is one for you to try.... P A P E R (and then leave a new set of five letters for the next person) Enjoy! Christina

Airies A-Z Of films/movies
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Hi All, just a thread of films/movies starting from A through to Z. i will start and being the person I am i will start with Jaws- a film that left me scared of going in for a swim for a year or two, cheers Len

Hi All, just a thread of films/movies starting from A through to Z. i will start and being the person I am i will start with Jaws- a film that left me scared of going in for a swim for a year or two, cheers Len

Croix Croix Parler
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I'd like to use this pace for miscellaneous matters that don't fit elsewhere or you think I might helpThanksCroix

I'd like to use this pace for miscellaneous matters that don't fit elsewhere or you think I might helpThanksCroix

CMF Quotes that I like
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I couldn't think of a more creative name for this thread so I kept it simple. I love coming across quotes that make me feel good or make me think about a situation in a different light. I have a "little book of confidence" that I used to carry in my ... View more

I couldn't think of a more creative name for this thread so I kept it simple. I love coming across quotes that make me feel good or make me think about a situation in a different light. I have a "little book of confidence" that I used to carry in my handbag for when i needed it and I have a few other little books with quotes that I reflect on now and then I thought it would be good to share some and encourage others to do the same. For starters I have: If you want to know someone's mind, listen to their words. If you want to know their heart, watch their actions. People are not addicted to alcohol or drugs, they are addicted to escaping reality. cmf x

Sunflower78324 Live Regardless
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I have learnt so much in the last couple of years after loosing my late wife to brain tumor! I have learnt to move on as it seemed pretty difficult living in the four walls we got together, thinking about downsizing was one of the best decisions i ma... View more

I have learnt so much in the last couple of years after loosing my late wife to brain tumor! I have learnt to move on as it seemed pretty difficult living in the four walls we got together, thinking about downsizing was one of the best decisions i made the whole time as it feel a little better but i always remember the good times and that keeps me going and very hopeful about everything i do in life.

lookingforme A song to express your feelings
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At this hour, I find myself particularly vulnerable because I am heavily sleep deprived, and my brain can't really process. I have been awake for 21 hours and 12 minutes straight after a string of nights of only a few hours' sleep. I don't feel well,... View more

At this hour, I find myself particularly vulnerable because I am heavily sleep deprived, and my brain can't really process. I have been awake for 21 hours and 12 minutes straight after a string of nights of only a few hours' sleep. I don't feel well, nor do I feel sleepy. So, I am listening to the soundtrack of my life entitled "Walkabouts" and right now, the perfect song to describe what I am feeling (at least the chorus of it) is Madness by Muse. Has anyone ever felt like they could communicate more if they did it through the songs that already exist? I challenge us to have a conversation consisting of song quotes. So, dedicated to my depression; here I go... Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad...Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad....Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad...Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad...I, I can't get these memories ooout of my mind, and some kind of maaaadness has started to evolve. Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad...Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad... And I, I tried so hard to let you go-ooo, but some kind of maaaadness is swallowing me whole, yeah....Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad...Ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-ma-mad mad mad...I have finally seen the light. And I have finally realized, what you mean.... Ooh oh oh [MODERATOR'S NOTE: Hi everyone, just a reminder that song lyrics are copyrighted material, and we (as in BB) can get into trouble for reproducing them without permission. If you could just keep to sharing song titles, or one or two lines from the song at most, rather than whole lyrics that would be great - that way we can keep this thread open. ]

Neil_1 Worst Joke Wednesday
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Hi all I know a while back there was a thread with some jokes on it - just to try and lighten the load for folk and to provide a few jolly japes and spiffy spifferoons (those words etched in my memory bank from the late and great Kenny Everitt). Howe... View more

Hi all I know a while back there was a thread with some jokes on it - just to try and lighten the load for folk and to provide a few jolly japes and spiffy spifferoons (those words etched in my memory bank from the late and great Kenny Everitt). However, I was far to lazy to try and find the other thread, so thought I'd start up a new one WJW. Here we go people, something to start you off with: "When I was a small boy, I had a dog named Tax. I'd open the door and "Income Tax"" "That very same year, I had a bird called Enza. I'd open the window and "Influenza" Now, they can't be done on any other day - for it is after all, Worst Joke Wednesday. See if you can beat either of those?

Ggrand Two word game, loose a word, add a word ,keep a word.
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Hello everyone, I like games especially word games, This is an easy game, I'll start with two word that are meant to be together .... House Boat, Fishing Boat, fly fishing, etc. from first 2 words to 2nd 2 words. . so we take a word away (house)...ad... View more

Hello everyone, I like games especially word games, This is an easy game, I'll start with two word that are meant to be together .... House Boat, Fishing Boat, fly fishing, etc. from first 2 words to 2nd 2 words. . so we take a word away (house)...add another word ( fishing).. keep a word...(boat). lets see how we go.. good luck and have a bit of fun.. Grandy.