Hello PITA, thanks for being able to open up to us as I'm sure many people would have read your comment and are interested to view any comments made back to you.
When a couple works hard and possibly have a difficult work load at work and feel as though they aren't respected for all they do, they will come home not being their normal self, so any comment from the spouse and/or kids, who you dearly love, is made, may easily provoke an argument and I'm sure this has happened to many of us and understand the situation you're in.
People always have work problems and sometimes it's not appropriate to bring them home with you, your spouse may understand but be unable to talk about it the way you want this to happen, so arguments may develop, as they are trying to cope with their own problems, so ring a friend if you can, your spouse is struggling to try to get the house organised.
A fighting couple only leads to disharmony and if need be seek a couple relationship counsellor, if perhaps it's your work then we'd like to hear back from you.
Geoff.
