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Hi everyone. Hope you're all coping and doing okay ❤️
I felt like I needed to express so here goes.
I'm stating school again tomorrow. It's a university/tafe course and having just finished year 12 last year, I have no clue what to expect.
I'm petrified of having to go somewhere where I don't know anyone or what to expect. It's 11:52pm and I can't sleep because I feel so out of place, so unsettled and I just feel so...helpless
Any help would be much appreciated.
Love you all 🙂
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Hi Daisy Queen,
Uni/tafe can be pretty terrifying, especially after highschool. I think it's pretty normal to feel stressed/anxious about it, and it's most definitely normal to feel unsettled and out of place!!! I remember starting my uni course and I had no idea what to expect. I was terrified and didn't know anyone, and was scared at the number of people that were there (silly as that sounds). But I found the atmosphere better than school - It's more independant, you can do your own thing a lot more, and choose what you want to do and where you want to go 🙂
In saying that, it was still hard and I had to remind myself that it was an experience, and I had to try to keep an open mind. I figured that the first day would be the hardest, and it would get better from there. Also, there's a lot of people feeling exactly the same as you right now, not knowing what to expect on their first day back tomorrow! I think remembering that no matter what happened, I was still me, and I could still breathe, think, feel and see, and grounding myself by focusing on those things really helped 🙂
Good luck!! I hope it goes well for you, and I hope my post helps somehow 🙂
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Hi daisyqueen,
Firstly, congratulations on finishing year 12 and for your acceptance in this uni/TAFE course!
I agree with Maui that the transition between high school and uni/TAFE can be very nerve racking. It's a brand new environment after 13 years of being in the school system.
This will be my 3rd year at uni (another couple of weeks to go till the semester starts). I remember not knowing what to expect either on day 1 of uni. But as Maui also said, you won't be the only one. There will be 1000s of other nervous students so you're not alone in that sense.
In terms of what to expect, I'm not sure how TAFE is structured but I can give you some idea about uni.
The disability services at (most) unis oversee mental health issues (TAFE probably has an equivalent setup). If you have an existing MH condition and register with them, they can help you in terms of additional support like assignment extensions, counselling, etc. I think this is good to be aware of in case you ever need them.
Unis tend to organise units (subjects) as either lectures or tutorials (tutes) and sometimes pracs. Pracs tend to be for more STEM units (science, technology, engineering and maths) or perhaps even design units (although they're sometimes called alternative names like "studio").
Lectures generally involve a professor or dr who speaks for about 1-3 hours. Lecture class sizes tend to be on the larger end of the spectrum (unless you're doing a highly specialised unit). If you're studying popular units like law and commerce then you could easily have hundreds of students per lecture.
A lot of lectures are also recorded so you can watch/listen online (although check if this is the case for each unit).
Tutes (tutorials) are usually taught by current PHD students (tutors). Class sizes tend to be a lot smaller (usually between 15-25 students per class), and I personally find it easier to make friends in tutes than lectures. Tutes are great for seeking more personalised help (although you can still ask questions in lectures).
A helpful tip is to read the unit outline, which generally outlines all the important info e.g. assessment dates, tutor and lecture contact details, general admin, etc. It will give you an idea of what you can expect and what is expected of you.
Hope this helps.
All the best tomorrow! Let us know how it goes if you want 😊
Dottie x
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You know what it's like when you see someone who could also be looking at you, because this only means that they believe you will be someone who they want to connect with, so once you start talking well then the world is open, you talk about what school you both went to, and the subjects you liked and those you hated and then -------------------------------------Geoff.
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Thank you for your replies and I'm sorry mine is so late.
Not being used to using BeyondBlue's site, it took me a while to figure out how to respond and find out what posts I haven't replied to.
I've finished my course and am now looking for a job 🙂
That's the next hurdle unfortunately.
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