Hey reeg,
In a relationship, it can be very hard because you're two different people trying to share experiences together and no matter how close you are, there will always be differences. But really, that's what makes relationships so wonderful - not only finding out your shared interests, but where you differ as well.
Without knowing what you fight about, it's hard for us to really comment but it sounds like frustrations come up between the two of you.
When these frustrations come up, it's important to remember that the other person sees things differently to you. So when bringing them up - and it's important to communicate - we need to make sure we don't communicate in a way that sounds like a personal attack. Talking about your feelings, rather than what the other person should've done, will let them understand what their actions make you feel. And if they truly care, they'll want to know what they should've done instead and ask.
Just the same - when we feel like we are being attacked, it's important to remember that it often comes from a place of hurt. So it is good to try and understand why they are saying what they are saying.
Ultimately, we all have boundaries and learning what each others' boundaries are, and whether we can tolerate them, is all part of the early relationship stages. And if you are both talking to each other about this, then it will help you guys work on the fighting and make things a little bit easier 🙂
James
