No one cares about me and I am not that attractive

guest161
Community Member
People don't care about me I ask them to be friend but they just say I don't care or treat like a bad person I am not a bad person. People that treat me wrong I don't curse them or anything i just want to see everyone happy even if it takes my smile way what should I do?
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Francesco
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Karan!

First of all, well done for seeking help here that is a very good step. I'd like to add that the people here care and are always willing to help.

They don't seem to sound like very good friends. Have you been able to tell them how you feel about them? Do they know they upset you?

That is a very good thing that you want to see others happy but don't forget about your own happiness. We can't nurture others if we don't nurture ourselves. 

lel-iwish
Community Member

Haiii.

Good job for posting. Seeking help is always good.

I don't think the people you would like to be friends with is very nice. Try to hang around more optimistic people!

Do not take their rejection to heart. Remember, if they don't wanna be friends with you, then it will be their loss not yours. 

You are the most important. Remember that. To be able to make others happy, you have to have a good state of mind and be happy yourself. You are top priority. It's amazing to hear that you want others to be happy but do not forget about yourself. Your happiness is more important. 🙂