I’m just mot happy at home

[Lonely_girl]

Ive never been close woth either of my parents but i can talk to my father. My mother is the problem and around her i just dont feel happy at home. She calls me names and jist makes me feel horrible in general. Ive put up with it for a while and blames me for everythig.

I just want to leave the house but im too young. She calls me fat daily and purposely makes fun of me. I was admitted to hospital with sever panic attacks ans not being able to breathe twice this year and after i leave and get in the car she get physical with me and tells me that shes so embarrassed. She tells me to get over it and laughs. It gets worse when my Aunty is over as they both feed off each others nastiness.

My mother has been the cause of two panic attacks. One of which she walked away laughing with her sister and the other were she told me to get out of her house and when I didn’t (because I was in my pyjamas) she cornered me near the front door and started hitting me. In the last few weeks I haven’t been able to have a single conversation with her without it ending in her screaming at me and I just don’t know what to do because I constantly feel trapped

[Sophie_M]

Hi Lonely girl, 

We're writing to you to let you know that our Support Service is going to send you an email as we are worried about you. 

It is so brave of you to have come on here to reach out to the community today, we're so glad that you have. Please know that we are here for you and you are not alone. 

It's important that we let you know that it is not okay under any circumstance for someone to make you feel unsafe or not hurt you. We'd strongly urge you contact 000 if you feel you are in immediate danger. 

1800 RESPECT are a wonderful organisation that can also help you: https://www.1800respect.org.au/ 

You can also contact Kids Helpline for any reason at any time - 1800 55 1800 : https://kidshelpline.com.au/ 

The community are here for you Lonely girl, please let us know how you are going when and if you feel up to it. 

 

[Birdy77]

Dear Lonely_girl,

I am just here to extend to you a hand of friendship and care. We are so glad you have made your way here to the forums.

As Sophie said, it is so brave of you to reach out here, you are being treated very badly at home and it is not ok in any way. I hope you can use the contacts that Sophie has provided.

We will be here to listen to you and support you. You are not alone Lonely_girl.

You mentioned you can talk to your father, although you're not close ... does he know what is going on? Does he know that your mother and aunty treat you like this? I am wondering if you can talk to him and get some support and help from him?

Again, welcome here Lonely_girl.

We are here for you.

🌻birdy

[Summer Rose]

Hi Lonely Girl

My heart breaks for you. I want you to know that you have done nothing wrong, sweet child, and that there are many people here that will help you through this difficult time.

The way you are being treated by your mum and Aunty is not acceptable. Please think about a person in your world that you can reach out to for help. It needs to be someone you trust and ideally a responsible adult. Dad? Another family member? A teacher? Your GP? A neighbour? A friend's mum? And I'd like to suggest that you consider telling this person what is happening. I say this because I think you are going to need some adult help to sort things out. Can you think of a person like this that you could talk to?

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Post any time x