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Hello, Jazmine
I'm sorry to hear that you're struggling. It can be hard to cope when your life seems to be falling to bits and you feel completely alone. I've been there when it comes to loneliness. And yes, it often does make school a struggle, with teachers expecting you to just get on with your work, while inside, you're drowning.
It sounds like you just really need someone to talk to. I'm here for you. You can write back as many times as you need to. I know how you feel. Also, it might be a good idea to look at getting some professional help. They won't be able to do too much about your boyfriend or people not being there for you, but maybe they could help you cope with it better.
Like I said, I'm here if you want to talk. Write back as many times as you need to, and I will try and be as caring and understanding as I can. Shouldn't be too hard, because like I said, I know how loneliness feels.
Best wishes,
Jack
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Hi jasmine. It's so easy for others to stand on the sidelines and say, 'it's alright, everything will be alright, tomorrow'. Tomorrow never seems to come. The next day seems to be as hard as the previous one. As far as your bf goes, this won't be much comfort now, but you'll have many bf's before you meet 'the one'. Each time you fall in love, then break up it hurts all over again. But the pain gets to be different as you grow. How long is it since you broke up? Boys mature differently to girls, perhaps your bf decided he wanted to 'play the field' a bit. Perhaps he wanted to 'hang out' with his mates. If he attends the same school, that makes it harder. Can you talk to your mum about your loss? I think if you could perhaps see your way clear to enjoying your gf's, possibly participate in school projects with them, you may start to feel more positive. Give yourself some time to grieve, grieving helps the pain to ease. When you feel the memories come back, read a book, watch t.v, talk to gf's. After a while the memories won't hurt so much, you'll still remember, but the pain won't be as severe. Everyone goes through this at some stage. As Jack says, we're here when it gets too much.
Lynda.