Hi Immy,
I also had trouble with this, but I am now able to focus on my own results at uni, and what they mean for me. Comparing yourself to others usually doesn't end well, as there will always be people who get higher grades or who manage to forge through life with seemingly more ease. You can never know what goes on behind-the-scenes in people's lives. Some people are really unhappy and stressed as a result of pushing themselves to achieve near-perfect academic results. This can have negative long-term effects, is mentally and physically draining, and can negatively influence social relationships and overall happiness.
As you are prone to comparing yourself to others at uni, try to avoid asking others what grades or percentage they received for assignments or other written work. If you do not plan to do postgraduate study at uni, then it doesn't matter as much if you don't receive distinctions or high distinctions for your work. It would be nice to, and is a good level to aim for, however. The main thing is that you pass all your subjects and finish your degree.
I would like to get into Psychology Honours, so I need to get at least a Distinction average for this year and next year's subjects. I know it is possible for me to achieve this, but I have now decided to not get really anxious and disheartened if my grades this semester are only Credits. There are so many options and different pathways to follow once you finish uni.
It's helpful to not judge your self-worth based solely on a few factors. If you define yourself too much by your grades, then whenever you do not achieve to your expected level, your self-confidence will be adversely affected.
Make sure you keep up close friendships, and make time for hobbies and outside interests as well. Balance is the key, as cliqued as it sounds.
I hope something I said has been helpful!
Best wishes,
SM
