Struggling to be social

Flamingolover
Community Member

Hello, I’m new and this is my first post.

I’m 25 and have been struggling to cope with stress and my personal relationships the last 2-3 months. Last year I went through a pregnancy termination which is causing me a lot of grief and feelings of failure. I’m in a new relationship and have been having low moods every few days which is causing me to get angry and fight with my new boyfriend. I feel lost and alone and living by myself is making it worse. I’m trying to find new techniques to help me cope with all of this but feel like I need a support group.

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Bethie
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi

Welcome to BB here we support each other and never judge. Its 100% safe.

Due to my MH i have had several terminations. We all have very personal reasons for having the procedure and its never easy. Probably the positives are at least you know you can have a baby when the time is right in your life and i honestly believe every woman who does terminate thinks it is best in the long term. I had my son after 2 procedures and a 3rd due to nearly being in hospital with postnatal depression. It might be time to have a good cry and maybe do a little something personal to grieve. I know i did after mine and it really helped with my depression.

You really need to see a GP as well. The body can take a long time for hormones to calm down.

Please keep posting so we all know how you are