New and stressed

[Dispo]

Hi all,

This is a first for me so not sure where to start except hi, and get straight into it. I always valued myself as mentally and emotionally strong person until 8 months ago and where out of the blue i met a woman in the most unlikely of places who rocked my world. My marriage was already on rocky ground, however meeting this woman confirmed what i had already been feeling for a very long time. I dont want to break up my family especially hurt my kids but i really want to be with the other woman. I have stressed so much about this yhat i was diagnosed with anxiety and minor depression, there is a lot more to say about the situation but i just want some feed back.

THANKS

[BballJ]

Hi Dispo,

Firstly, welcome to the forums.

These sort of situations are always hard to give feedback on as I do not want to say anything that could cause you to break up your family but I also understand how hard these situations are for people. A lot of it comes down to your current marriage, can you work on it enough to get it better and get it back to where it used to be, maybe that is through marriage counselling? The fact you have been diagnosed with anxiety and minor depression from it tells me there may still be something there with your wife and the fact you feel for another woman is just causing you so much stress. If you feel going into more detail will help, please feel free too.

Please, post back as much as you like, we are always happy to talk.

My best for you,

Jay