Jem42

[Jem42]

Hello,

I'm new to the site, and am feeling isolated at the moment, and thought this possibly was a good place to have a chat with people in the same position.

[Jem42]

Hi,

thanks for that, I found the cafe's. getting the hang of things a bit better now.

have a great day.

Jem

[startingnew]

Thats good to hear 🙂

How are you going?

[Jem42]

Hi Startingnew,

I'm doing ok, a few things have gone my way lately. I'm starting a new job Tues. I use to work at the same place, and I know the Manager. I cried during my interview, but they are willing to still give me a trial run, which is so good, lifted my confidence a bit.

I think just chatting on here has helped also, I'm not feeling so alone. Checking in for replies, and checking out what others are going through, and seeing the support its great.

Hope you are doing well?

[startingnew]

Hello Jem

Good work on getting a new job. Your boss sounds understanding.

Im glad talking here has helped you too. This is a great community 🙂

Hows your long weekend looking for you?

[Guest_1055]

Hello Jem.... Just wanted to let you know ( so hopefully you will not feel alone or that you are the only one) that I cry a lot also. I have heard it can be good for us... helps let out our stored emotions. And tells us we are alive and are human or something.

I am happy for you that you have a new job.

Shell

[Jem42]

Hello

I have a bit of a busy wknd, running my daughter around to her State Volley Ball games, she has 2 this wknd. lucky its a long wknd . Her games are always at Mt Lofty, its a good 45 mins from home. Very cold down there too.

What about you, what are you up too for the wknd.

[Jem42]

Thank you Shelley anne, I'm nervous about my job, but being busy will be good, take my mind away from things. I need to build my confidence up cause it was destroyed in my last job I hope this works out.

Yes they do say crying is good for you, but mine is over the top, it takes over me and I can't stop it. Its not making me feel any better either, more embarrassed, and I want to hide away.

[startingnew]

Hey Jem

Thats a pretty big weekend. I hope it all goes well and you get simr time to yourself as well.

If you find your getting more worked up while crying try taking a few deep breaths. Sometimes we just need to breathe.