I get the blame

[Ghost01]

Hi all

I am a person who keeps to her self an somehow even if I have nothing to do with it I get the blame . Apparently I push people away as well . I work an I come home, I reach out to my family to make an effort but as soon as I a don't make the effort they say I push people away .were is there effort why is it my fault.im now second guessing myself an feel it is my fault. What am I supposed to do .

[quirkywords]

Ghost hello and welcome to this forum.

This is a friendly, caring and supportive.place.

It sounds very frustrating for you when you are getting the blame and accused of pushing people away.

Has this happened for a long time or just recently.?

Can you talk to your family about how you feel?

Thanks for sharing your story.

Quirky

[VoxAmino]

Hey Ghost and welcome!

I feel you, my family were exactly the same. I would come home and if I didn't immediately hang out with them or walk in with a smile on my face it was on. I managed to talk to them and make them understand my situation for the most part and since then they have been... more cool about it. I still get the occasional complaint I am not making an effort but it's not as much as it used to be and I shake it off for the most part now. It's easy to say just plain ignore it but that can be hard. You could try talking to them and making them try to see it from your side and they might be more inclined to take it easier on you.