Hi
Thought of introducing myself, and even though the forum is about mental issues, i wanted to express the need to understand other with mental issues and bring a ray of hope in their lives.
I am going through a bit, and its taken me about 6 months to think of opening an account on BB.
About me: 36 yo returning migrant to lovely Melbourne after a 7 year stint in my country of birth.
in those 7 years, had a good job, met my wife, married, got a daughter, a cat, a house and a whole lot of extended family issues that we broomed under a thick blanket.
These issues are propping up (well for my life) now that she wants to change her life. However i am a doofus at most things and mis-interpret or don't interpret things properly. (dont know)
My wife is going through serious changes in her life, and she is the type of person that doesn't talk very much (the reverse of me) and instead actions on things. her motto is Actions speak louder than words.
Well for the most part of her transition, i am left with a child and a house thinking things up. i even thought that she was cheating and confronted her 4 times about it - every time her answers were that she is going through a personal change and the extended family issues has affected her a lot.
she denies any form of cheating, but i find it hard to believe, why all of a sudden she spends a lot more time at work, taking pride in her self-care, returns home past midnight and doesn't bother to text her whereabouts and always claiming that her phone died.
hope i can get some help over here
