Hi from me.

[Jasemine]

Hello

This is my first post here and I am not sure if I am really ready to share every detail about my problems but lately I have been feeling trapped in all aspects of my life and I have not been in a good head space. I have some difficult decisions to make and I am not sure how to proceed with them as I know that they will effect more then just me.

Just looking through some of the other posts on here has picked me up a little so I'd like to say thank you for that.

[romantic_thi3f]

Hey Jasemine,

Welcome to the forums!

I'm really glad that you're here. I'm sorry that you're feeling trapped and not in a good headspace. I understand though if you're not ready to share. There is no pressure here and you can share as much or as little as you like.

I'm really glad that some of the other posts have helped a little. Sometimes just reading other people's stories can make a difference in knowing that you aren't alone.

Feel free to write again or to let us know if there's anything we can do to make things easier for you.

[Feeling_Lonely]

Hi Jasemine,

Welcome and thank you for posting. Feeling trapped is an overwhelming feeling but it is positive that you have recognised this and are wanting to do something about it.

With any major decision that you need to make it is important to assess the pros and cons. If it involves other people it may also be worthwhile brainstorming how they may react so that you can be prepared for that. It is also good to consider any alternative options available.

Even though your decisions will impact others, it is critical that you think of how it is impacting you. Ultimately, you need to do what is right for you and what makes you happy.

It can be hard to deliver this message to others if you think they may be hurt by it, but by being prepared in how you will deliver the message and explaining your reasons this can be helpful. As is being prepared for how they may respond and in turn how you can respond to the situation.

I wish you all the best in working through the decision making process and putting your needs first. Of course feel free to keep posting here if you want to discuss any of these ideas further 🙂

[geoff]

hi Jasemine, welcome to the site and thanks for posting your comment.

For you to share all your problems on your first post maybe much too difficult for you at the moment, so it's better if we can try and make you feel comfortable talking with us.

You won't be able to make any decisions when you can't think clearly, especially if they involve other people or other situations, so take your time and work through them with the help of those who may have been in similar circumstances.

I'm pleased that you have read other posts which may make you a little more confident, but please come back if you have any questions. Geoff.