Hi everyone,
Just now I found myself in a desperate situation to talk. I am in my late 20's and over the past year and a half my life took a dramatic turn.
In my late teens (2009/2010) I got involved with someone and had a wonderful relationship. Just over a year and a half later, the relationship ended and I hit rock bottom.
Lost 13kg in 4 days, drank all weekend and if I wasnt doing either of those I became a gym junkie.
I went from 175cm approx and 85kg (im female) to 60kg. I was super happy and loved life, but always longed to have my ex back. We kept it casual and he knew how I felt. 8 months after him breaking up with me and keeping it causal he got with someone else. A year later so did I.
As soon as I got with my new boyfriend, he wanted me back but I had moved on.
I seemingly broke up with that boyfriend a few weeks later because of differences and found myself back together with the ex.
2 months later I was pregnant, and it was planned. 3 months later he proposed.
6 months after that we bought a house and our child was born.
Got married some time after that and lived happily for several months.
Mid 2016 while I was pregnant with our second child, he destroyed our marriage.
Via text, the day before my birthday, for a girl he met at work.
With the same name as me.
I had to move from our home, he ignored everything I said to him and still to this day there has been no change.
My family think that depression and anxiety are a choice. That medication will make it vanish.
Other times its "you dont want to get better".
If I say "I'M..." they turn it around to themselves. Like I'm never important enough to consider.
I have 2 young children whom I am now a single parent to. My ex plays happily families with the homewrecker and my family is crowding me expecting me to want to talk about it all the time. Help.
