Good Morning Cathy, and a warm welcome to the forums.
Sometimes we can't talk to our close friends or even family if they haven't been or still going through what's happening to us now, it's so difficult to know where we can begin, but once you can relate the pain to people who have been through it themselves, then it's so much easier because they know exactly what you're trying to say.
Please, in your own time get back to us.
Geoff.
