Maybe the universe is saying that you dont need another person to be happy? Are you happy with your life for yourself? Why does everyone feel the need to have a significant other. I feel like when we are content in our own lives thats when things unfold for us and what we love in life. You cant force stuff like that. You could maybe nudge it along with having more friends of the opposite sex, but you cant manufacture the experience of falling in love or expecting to have perfect dates or even loving at first sight. Life just aint like that at all. Love is supposed to be a suprise not an expected thing and maybe you might not even recognise it right now because yiu are trying to find it so hard you might be squinting.
I am a big believer if you are content with your life anything else is just a bonus. Why do we feel another completes us. Be content with loving yourself and having healthy friendships when you establish this its easy to fall in relationships as you have a steady foundation of caring and working with yourself and others. Find out what you really want and need and then you may be able to give to the relationships that matter in your life. Your relationship with no 1 first which will set the healthiest base and then loved ones. Focus on getting that relationship right 1st
