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ThisCarl Meds and psychology wont help. Have to leave my job. No idea what to do.
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Hi all, So despite the actions of my GP my depression is getting worse and worse and worse. No treatment is helping, pharmaceutical or psychological. I feel I can no longer support myself by working and will be finishing up my job soon. So what can I... View more

Hi all, So despite the actions of my GP my depression is getting worse and worse and worse. No treatment is helping, pharmaceutical or psychological. I feel I can no longer support myself by working and will be finishing up my job soon. So what can I do? I just dont know what to do or where to go. Its so frustrating. If I had a broken bone or appendicitis or something I would just go to my doctor to get help and have a few days rest. But this doesnt seem possible with depression, even though its gotten so bad I can no longer work because of it.

Badluck Major Depression - Medications versus healthier options
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Hi everyone.This is my first time posting.I've been dealing with a lot in my life. I had a rough violent childhood. I was brought up to not cry as a child. The more you cried, the more you got hit. Parents never believed in showing signs of affection... View more

Hi everyone.This is my first time posting.I've been dealing with a lot in my life. I had a rough violent childhood. I was brought up to not cry as a child. The more you cried, the more you got hit. Parents never believed in showing signs of affection.Left home when I was 19 with the shirt on my back and started a life of my own.I recently had been fired after being verballyabused almost daily from an employer. I took one sick day in 5 years after being sent to hospital with my stress. This caused me to lose my job as I got dismissed the same day. After months of grief I have tried putting this behind me. My family and I have lost our family home, my company belongings including a car, and we are living off one income while I try and recover. I feel lost like I'm having a midlife crisis. I have gone from a professional in-control person to one that struggles with day to day activities or keeping concentration for short spans of time. I blame myself for the mess we are in and am not sure how to gain my focus back, to provide myself with goals and stop being an angry depressed person. It's not helping the family life. My wife has been trying to support me for the past few months (although she has been doing it for 19 years now) but we are both struggling with the amount of medication I am being prescribed by the psychiatrist. I have received up to 8 different types of tablets in the last several months. All seem to provide severe memory problems, shaking, hot and cold sweats, loss of sexual appetite (which doesn't help relationships), sleeplessness and violent tendencies with suicidal thoughts. It's funny that the tablets that are prescribed to help you, cause more issues. I'm searching for alternate solutions please. I'm trying acupuncture with massage that seems to help a little. I've thought of volunteering with organisations that work with child abuse victims thinking that it might help me vent what I've been through and assist others but don't know how to get into this. The psychiatrist is only interested in tablets and not discussing my issues. Psychologists have cried every time I've had a session and I've had 4 individuals so far. I take every vitamin under the sun to prop me up but it also isn't helping.If anyone has any ideas I would be willing to give it a try. I've tried outdoor activities the other day but was assaulted by another man so I've since become a little more depressed.beyondblue's clinically-trained moderators often work offline (invisible to you) on issues relating to suicide or self-harm. At the same time, general supportive comments from the community are encouraged. If you have concerns around suicide or self-harm, please phone our support service on 1300 22 4636.

Natarsha I was feeling down about my weight and figured it was from 13.5 years of anti-depressants so I weaned myself off them.....
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but now I'm feeling teary, lethargic and hard on myself for letting myself go from my ideal weight of 65kg to over 75kg. I did the gym for 8 months with a personal training and restricted my food but my weight did not budge. I was depressed about my ... View more

but now I'm feeling teary, lethargic and hard on myself for letting myself go from my ideal weight of 65kg to over 75kg. I did the gym for 8 months with a personal training and restricted my food but my weight did not budge. I was depressed about my weight before coming off the meds, how do I now find the will to tough out the fragility I feel now that I have come off my meds? Is there an adjustment period I need to get past?

Myshelle Difference in AD meds
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Firstly I would like to say hello , I only joined your forum this morning. I have spent quite a time reading here and see much support and information. My question, what is the difference between serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI’s) and norepinephr... View more

Firstly I would like to say hello , I only joined your forum this morning. I have spent quite a time reading here and see much support and information. My question, what is the difference between serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRI’s) and norepinephrine reuptake inhibitor (SSNRI) I ask as my Dr changed me from the SSRI to the SSNRI, however because I had to take a few days break between the change and did not feel too bad I chose not to start the new med. Personally for me I feel now I have made the wrong decision as 3 weeks on my depression and anxiety symptoms are worsening by the day. I hesitate to take that first tablet, I question myself could this pass without it ,though I am not feeling very positive on that thought. I have been on AD Meds for 30 years so I am no stranger but I was feeling no benefit from my old brand which is why my DR changed me. Thank you

Alaric retreats for depression
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I need some assistance with retreats within Australia for depression. A friend is looking at one employing the Fountainhead method and want to charge 16k for 21 days. Can someome please assist with any information, good or bad to assist in making the... View more

I need some assistance with retreats within Australia for depression. A friend is looking at one employing the Fountainhead method and want to charge 16k for 21 days. Can someome please assist with any information, good or bad to assist in making the decision. Thanks in advance

lisar Meds to help anxiety symptoms
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Hi guys This is more a curiosity question really. My psych put me on a beta blocker for my anxiety - I didn't realise that's what it was!!!! The shaking, the stomach churning & racing pulse plus everything else wasn't normal! The difference the meds ... View more

Hi guys This is more a curiosity question really. My psych put me on a beta blocker for my anxiety - I didn't realise that's what it was!!!! The shaking, the stomach churning & racing pulse plus everything else wasn't normal! The difference the meds made was absolutely incredible & for the first time in a couple of years my pulse actually dropped below 120! I loved feeling so much better initially then once the novelty wore off I felt like it was to hard to do anything - I didn't have the anxiety over riding the depression & I wasn't achieving anything cos of no motivation. We have worked out a dosage that suits me now though. I am wondering if anyone else out there is on long term meds for their anxiety & if they have similar sort of feelings?

Zoomah Broke, unemployed, depression treatment
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Hi, I've had depression for four years. It lead to me having to resign my job as a teacher and has stopped me working all of this year. At age 28, I've had to move back in with my parents or become homeless. At home, I contribute nothing financially ... View more

Hi, I've had depression for four years. It lead to me having to resign my job as a teacher and has stopped me working all of this year. At age 28, I've had to move back in with my parents or become homeless. At home, I contribute nothing financially and cost probably $250 in food and bills. Pretty tough on my parents who are saving for retirement and have hardly anything put away. Currently, I see my GP, a psychiatrist and a psychologist. I volunteer, interact with my few friends and family and take my meds. My mental health care plan ran out ages ago so I've been paying for the psych out of my own pocket. My GP has been kind enough to bulk bill, knowing that I'm struggling financially but the psychologist, which I see weekly, is eating up my money at $130 a pop. It was very cheap with my mental health care plan. The worst part is the psychologist is the thing that is really helping. I went through 3 psychologists (3 mental health care consultations gone) before finding this one who I connected with. It looks like, as things are going, that I'm going to have to stop working with my psychologist only due to financial reasons. Last week, I went into centrelink and medicare. I explained my situation and medicare said they had no assistance for me. Centrelink put me on New Start even though I don't think I can hold a job. I skip out on the fire brigade every week or so and that's something I enjoy doing and with people I know and trust. Never mind people I don't know. I'm getting my psychiatrist to write a recommended list of things i can do, hours I can work, etc. What I would like to know is are there any services left available for me? Is there any way I can keep my current psych? I really need one on one sessions as the issues I need to talk about are very difficult for me. I only managed to tell my current psych by writing it down and still feel uncomfortable talking to her even though I trust her. Also, my psychiatrist has said it may be useful to go into an institution for a while. Unfortunately, the private hospitals are too expensive and public psychiatric hospitals, according to my friend who works in one, generally only accept those who are about to kill themselves or hurt someone. Has anyone in Perth had a different experience? Have they managed to get into a facility without being a danger either to themselves or others. Also, was it useful? Thank you for your time, Adrian

little_pepper Medication Change
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Hi all Recently my psychiatrist decided to change my medication because i had a relapse on my old one and i was on quite a high dose. After spending a month changing over (and constant nausea) the only side effect i have is loss of appetite. I can li... View more

Hi all Recently my psychiatrist decided to change my medication because i had a relapse on my old one and i was on quite a high dose. After spending a month changing over (and constant nausea) the only side effect i have is loss of appetite. I can literally go the whole day without feeling hungry. I'm not really sure if this is a good thing or not. I'm at a healthy weight already and if i remember to eat during the day its fine. I'm worried that now I'm under eating and not getting the nutrition i need. I can afford to lose a few kilos as i gained a bit of weight on my old medication. Do you think it would be worth sticking with this new medication and altering my diet? or discussing with my psych another medication?

Needachange Treatment live in programs / centres for anxiety depression
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Hi,New to the board. I have depression and anxiety and have just lost my mother due to suicide. I found her in the morning, she lived with me. Ive had depression for 23 years of my 43 years of life and need help. I am wanting to book myself into a tr... View more

Hi,New to the board. I have depression and anxiety and have just lost my mother due to suicide. I found her in the morning, she lived with me. Ive had depression for 23 years of my 43 years of life and need help. I am wanting to book myself into a treatment center, preferably private and that would be covered mostly by private health. Any advice would be appreciated. Willing to travel anywhere within Australia. Thanksbeyondblue’s clinically-trained moderators often work offline (invisible to you) on issues relating to suicide or self-harm. At the same time, general supportive comments from the community are encouraged. If you have concerns around suicide or self-harm, please phone our support service on 1300 22 4636.