I'm currently overseas, visiting my family. I return to Australia tomorrow, and last night my mother informs me she is concerned about my younger brother, who she says has had suicidal thoughts.
As the older sister, I feel like I want to do something to help, but not sure how to, as my visit ends soon. He is a very private person, and is not one to delve into his thoughts/feelings with anyone. I did today send him an email saying that I've noticed he's quiet, and he replied that things aren't going well. I asked if I can help in any way. Believe me, this is a pretty big step, as he really isn't one to tell family how he's going. Perhaps he feels "safer" emailing, rather than face to face. Hopefully this dialogue can continue.
I also want to give some guidance to my elderly parents, who are probably coping with this on a daily basis, but perhaps haven't wanted to burden me as I live halfway around the world.
If anyone has suggestions on how to help my brother and my parents, I'd love to hear.
Many thanks. 🙂
