Meditation, Manifesting, Gratitude & The Law of Attraction

[CMF]

Hi everyone,

Not sure where to start so hope I can express myself clearly and maybe with others' input we can expand on this. I'm interested in people's thoughts/ experience with meditation, manifesting, gratitude & the law of attraction. I've recently started using the Smiling Mind app to meditate when going to sleep and sometimes when feeling a little anxious, like tonight. It is something i thought i could never do as my mind rarely stops, however, with persistence, I find I enjoy it. I guess i tend to have a negative mindset which I am determined to change.I always felt uneasy about thinking positive things as i thought i would jinx myself, and that whenever I made a positive comment or felt happy it would go wrong or something negative would happen. So i refrained from allowing myself to be too happy, I guess to 'protect' myself. Recently i have been feeling happier, stronger, expressing gratitude and taking note of when things have come to me when i needed them. Coincidence, or answers to what i put out to the Universe? I like to think the latter. A work colleague one day told me to manifest something i wanted, put it out to the universe , so I'm trying. Example, recently we needed to measure the floor space at reception so we could calculate how many people we could have in at one time. I needed a tape measure, which i did not have. At that moment our handyman walked into the office. Guess what he had? I am getting into the habit of practising positive thinking instead of thinking/expecting negatives. If something 'negative' does crop up, it can be dealt with, it's not the end of the world. I look for the positive in every negative situation. I am becoming more aware of being grateful for little things, things like getting a good car park at work, a warn cosy bed, a tidy house. I feel when i am expressing gratitude I am putting positive thoughts out into the universe and I notice more positives instead of focusing on negatives. Late last week we had internet issues at work and a colleague i found a little annoying. I've been feeling very drained, agitated, negative for a few days. This morning things were not running smoothly for me. A result of my negative mind perhaps? Little things became a big deal, my morning was crap. If i look back, it wasn't really an issue, i just did things in a different order which gave me more relax time this evening. The Law of Attraction, positive thoughts, positive experiences.

What are your thoughts?

cmf x

[CMF]

Hi therising

Hmmmm, not sure if I'm a seer but it's food for thought. He says She'll take her furniture. I certainly don't want it lol.

Amelia02,

We don't all live together, they live together. Yes he knows,no she doesn't. She'll eventually move ie she wants kids etc but I'm sick of waiting mainly cos she's controlling & over bearing.

I'll just re Focus & keep manifesting. Hopefully her new man will see it's weird too that she lives with her bro in his 50's with 2 adult kids & a partner rather than in her own home. Surely as they progress he'll want their own apace, like I do.

Cmf🙏

[CMF]

Just had a rant on my other thread about the situation. When I finished I saw 5.55.

A symbol of changes relationships moving on...a sign perhaps? I see it often 😔

[CMF]

The angel number 555 urges you to let go of things that are old and no longer working for you. You should also welcome the new things that will be coming in to replace them

Hmmm...maybe if should manifest for sis to move on when I see this 😊

[therising]

Hi CMF

It pays to wonder. The most amusing and amazing things are born out of a productive sense of wonder. I smile when I imagine her saying to you at some point 'I don't know why but so often lately I keep seeing 5:55'. That would be amusing. Perhaps part of the challenge is for you to help her tune her into what she needs to see, hear and feel. Maybe part of the challenge is to open her mind to possibility beyond how she's currently living 🙂

[CMF]

Hi therising,

Always love your thoughts. I do think she's tune. She knows what she wants. Funny thing is, 2 days in a row she got a double egg yolk, one in the shape of a heart. Lol. She's getting signs too.

Now we just need her to take the hint 😜

[CMF]

My work colleague was very negative & not nice to be around. She wanted to WFH as she lives fae from the office (her chioce). I used to imagine her not being here, ne having a nice peaceful space to work. She now works from home 4 days a week only has to come in for weekly meeting.

If I can manifest that, I can manifest sis moving on.

[CMF]

I see 333 alot too.

Angel number 333 symbolizes encouragement in making the correct choices in life. And in terms of relationships, if you see this number, that may indicate that it is time for you to make essential changes and choices in your love life.

Interesting...

[CMF]

I'm finding it hard to manifest for his sis lately. She just irritates me so much.

Just wish she'd move away.

[therising]

Hi CMF

Who knows, maybe this is her course for some reason and no amount of manifesting will change it. If this is the case, doesn't mean this course of hers won't suit everyone a little down the track. Can't help but wonder whether it could be your course too perhaps. Could this testing time actually be a significant test.

When I think of motherhood, it is one of the toughest courses I've ever undertaken yet it has also been highly rewarding. While some of the challenges have led me to question so much, it has been the making of me.

CMF, when you look back, you can see how far you've come. Often, the most irritating of challenges can distract us from recognising just how many times we've graduated to get to the point we're currently at. In a year's time, I imagine you looking back at this time, reflecting on what a legend you were for graduating through something so incredibly irritating. Of course, while the challenge remains, things remain far from easy.

My wish for you is that things begin to move along a little faster so you can feel an obvious sense of progress. Can't help but love the feeling that comes with an obvious sense of progress 🙂

[Amelia02]

Hi CMF,

What is your partner’s timeline for her to move out? Is at all up to his sister/ it will happen just wait/ open ended/ ie there isn’t one or never?

Do you want to move in to his house with him? Is there space for you to do this now? Does he want this?
Do you want to live with just him only? Can he move in with you? Or can you find a new place for the two of you? You could buy or rent, he could rent his current house to his sister or other or sell it. Does he want this?
If his sister moves out would he want you to move in with him?
Do you just want him to live on his own without his sister? Ie you both live separately just the sister out of the picture.

Pin down exactly what your objective is. I guess you probably know what this is.
Pin down what your partner’s objective is - in terms of your relationship, his life.
Do you have the same objective? Are the two of you compatible?

If yes - work out a plan to reach your common goal - write it down, set timelines etc.

If no you can cut loose and stop wasting your valuable time and self and put your energy toward other things more worthwhile for yourself. You might find someone else better. Don’t wait on something that isn’t worth it/ there for you/ get strung along.

I think manifesting and “doing”(“concrete” type actions) blend into each other too. So manifesting in your mind and heart and as well as doing stuff eg making a plan you write out and stick to will be the most effective.

Re manifesting, from what I’ve read you’re to manifest things for yourself. Eg might be manifesting you and your partner living together in your own house. Or you just having domestic bliss. Apparently the more specific the better but eg if you want a partner and can’t see this person’s face for now it could still be ok.

I think manifesting things for others without their consent is considered a kind of black magic. Even if you think it is the best thing for them. So probably best to lose the manifesting for her to move out.

That thing therising said about checking what progress you’ve made is a good idea. If it’s been going on for ages without success it could be an indication to try a different tack. How long have you wished the sister to move out?