Hello Dools, 'People say no one else can make you feel this way', and being told by the psychologist's and/or psychiatrist's this, I certainly don't and can't believe they have said this because my brother in law was one reason why I had my breakdown, what he had done and certainly what he'd said to deny it.
A person, qualified as a solicitor, who asked my wife, not game to ask me personally, for a very large and substantial amount of money, in the high double figure thousands over a few months, to stop him going bankrupt and actually denying this, saying it was my depression that had confused me, but bank statements don't lie, contradicts what these psy's have said.
People can hurt anyone by what they say and can definitely keep someone in depression of any type, not only for a long time but can cause a fragile person to finally break down, that's what he did, and even now I know of others he has done exactly the same with.
At work, you can't ignore these people that abuse you or make cynical remarks because you are never sure when they will appear.
Geoff.
