Single Dad, Sole Parent

[Guest_37323725]

Please delete if not ok. 

You will never get all of me (at the moment). To give all of me now takes away from my kids. It takes away their father, their stability, their constant. I never want them to feel that anyone is more important than them. They are #1. I’m sorry - but for now I can only give some, most or a part of me. Depending on the day, depending on the time. I understand if this is unacceptable to you. But it is what it is. Life is about timing and that’s where I’m at. When will you get more of me? When will you get all of me? 
I don’t know, I can’t answer that. 

[Sophie_M]

Welcome to the forums, we are so glad that you've taken a big step in sharing here. We hope you find some comfort in sharing here, our supportive community members will start to respond.   You are welcome to visit our forums as often or as little as you like. 
It sounds like there are some feelings which might be overwhelming for you at the moment, if you ever want to talk this through with one of the Beyond Blue counsellors, feel free to give us a call on 1300 22 4636, or reach out through Online Chat here.     Thank you for sharing this and giving this community a chance. We’re here to listen and offer support, and you never know how your story might help someone else.

Kind regards,
Sophie M

[blondguy]

Welcome to the forums and good on you for speaking from the heart too!  There is no judgment on the forums. Only the best possible support we can provide. 

Im Paul, a volunteer on the forums. I understand the pain you are experiencing

you are not alone here at all, any questions are always welcome

my kindest always

Paul