Sorry to hear op l could only imagine how you must be feeling , NOTHING, and no one , would ever stop me seeing my d and l've never for the life of me understood why men let their mother do this rubbish.
You can fix this not only do your kids desperately need to see and have their father but their father does too. No decent man should ever be without his kids even if he does have a few problems guarantee without even knowing her their mother does too but having your kids back in your life will only help you and them too in whatever you need to do.
Best way is to work with your ex and ea other for the best for your kids if you could poss turn that around . You need to see her alone while the kids aren't around and try to work this out as calmly and respectfully to ea other as poss.if at all poss.
But l'd be willing and l did back when, even though it made me sick to the stomach , at least just calmly mention , only last resort, if she just won't cooperate though that it will have to go to court then but hopefully she won't wanna deal with that either and just the suggestion will be enough was my hope and it worked thank the Gods. We grew up instead and have worked together 11 yrs now. You know gone are the days women can do this rubbish a dad has full right to 50 50 time with his kids now in this country.
The very best of luck with it all anyway.
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