I have two kids under 10 and I see them every second weekend.
I have court orders in place to say I have visitation rights.
My ex is using my daughter as a weapon, if I don't talk to him when he demands I will not be allowed to see her. Yet if I request to talk to him... I have to take legal steps and sent it to his lawyer or mail, but he will not give me his address or who is lawyer is.
I was proventred from seeing her for 3 months, 8 weekend visits, because I was 10 mins late home from work on her drop of night.. I informed him early I was goin to be under half hour late.. But he wouldn't let me see her..
Its like anything he can find to make it hard for me he will..
I have tried legal action but I can't afford a lawyer and legal aid is taking for ever. I feel hopeless
i just want to see her and give her a massive hug.
He was to drop he off last weekend.. He came with her only, to inform me that he has sold his house n he is leaving the state.. She was in the car but I couldn't see her.
It's literally tearing me apart this has been goin on for 3 years and its affecting me so much I just don't know what to do.. I'm an emotional mess all the time even my friends have backed off a bit because I'm always down and unhappy.. I just can't live like this..
My kids are my world.. It's driving me to thoughts of suiside.. And self harm I just not coping with it anymore
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