I lost it yesterday!
Somehow, my sister (who treated me badly throughout my childhood., verbal, physical and destructive abuse), has wormed her way into dad’s ear. Apparently, I am not to have access to his accounts. (I am co-power of attorney).
My parents had a tumultuous relationship… divorced when I was 14, but I continued my relationship with my dad, from the time I was 16.
Older brother and sister didn’t… they were ‘team mum’ for many, many years (Mum passed in 2018).
Forward 40 years, and I have now been deemed unsuitable (by my remaining family) to have an active participation in my 90 yo father’s wellbeing and financials.
Why? No one will tell me!
Even dad (who still has his wits), thinks I’m causing trouble by insisting on having an active involvement in where his money is going.
Does a history of psychological issues, deem me unsuitable?
I have never been in ‘hospital’ for it.
It was controlled, until yesterday…
I’m now rock bottom. Again!
I am gutted!!
