Found my partners hidden Viagra and currently loosing my mind over it!

[beyond_confused]

Has anyone ever found a secret stash their partners sexual enhancement pills in their partners cupboard? Did you ask them about it straight away or did you wait to see when the next time they used one to see if it was with you or someone else? I felt something was off yesterday so I searched for answers and I found them hidden, there's currently three pills missing and I'm loosing my mind as to what to do about it. Any tips or advice would be great... thank you!!!

[ABC01]

Dear beyond_confused,

Just wanted to note, that sexual enhancement pills don't always mean what you may think. Sometimes they are prescribed for people with certain disorders to enable them to be able to self-pleasure. Where as without the pills, they aren't able to. If you don't think your partner fits this, could they just be experimenting? If you really need to know, I think you will have to ask them.

Sorry I couldn't help you more,

ABC01

[beyond_confused]

Hi ABC01,

Thanks so much for your reply, I really do appreciate it! I don't think my partner fits this, he's never had problems. If I ask him, he will likely deny and lie about it as he has in the past on other topics. Are men really embarrassed about experimenting and that's why? I honestly don't know why they would be embarrassed, if that's the reason, and not open with the person they love?

It's so confusing trying to guess!

Thank you again for commenting!!

[ABC01]

Dear beyond_confused,

You have the right to ask, as you are in a relationship with this person, regardless if they lie back to you. And if you believe they may be doing other things with these pills, to not be disrespected. They left the pills where they could be found. Did they expect you not to ask any questions if they were found?

 I guess it is whether or not you are ready to hear the potential answers and then have to deal with the reality of those answers.

Sending support,

ABC01