Hi Sammy,
Thank you for your post. Even if something doesn’t feel like a big deal, if it’s causing you concern, it’s absolutely worth talking about.
It sounds like there’s a lot going on for you right now, and it’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed. Even the “small stuff,” when it starts to pile up, can quickly become a lot to carry.
Navigating the space between encouraging motivation and respecting your daughter’s autonomy can be really tricky. One approach might be to start with an open, judgment-free conversation about her interests and future goals. Encouraging small steps, like exploring job options after uni or looking into volunteer opportunities, can help build confidence and momentum.
It could also be helpful to start discussing what things might look like if she moves back in after uni. Having those conversations early can give everyone time to prepare and feel more comfortable.
Of course, you know your daughter and your situation best. It’s clear you care deeply and want the best for her. You’re not alone in navigating this, and it’s okay to take things one step at a time. You’ve got a lot on your plate, and we’re here to support you. You’re always welcome here.
Kind regards,
Sophie M
