I totally understand how you are feeling. My husband 62 and married 19 years has an infatuation with a 25 year old. He isn’t sure who he wants to be with, even though he hasn’t been romantically involved with her. He still loves me and wants to remain friends. After researching the advice is give him space, but this is driving me mad. So I have decided to change tactics and be a friend. I’m not sure how this will help but I feel a tiny bit better as I can see and talk to him. I will fight for him but in a discreet way so as not to push him away but show him what he is missing.
