Hi Small
Welcome to the bb forum and congratulations for having the courage to reach out for support.
I know this is hard for you to talk about but I want you to know that you are safe here. We are a community of people committed to helping each other through tough times because we’ve all had our own hard times and understand the importance of non-judgmental support.
Like Sarah, I want you to know that this is not your fault. Your uncle has committed a terrible crime and he alone is responsible. I don’t know who “everyone” is, but I do know that they are wrong.
I am so sorry that this has happened to you. I am even sorrier that you are not getting the support you need and deserve from people around you.
You did the right thing in persevering to be heard and posting here. You said you’re “not sure what to do any more”. I would like to suggest that you find your way to a professional who can help you through this.
Kids Help Line is definitely an option. So is your doctor. You could also think about talking to someone you trust. This could be a teacher, friend or their parent, neighbour or even a coach or mentor.
Think about what you’d like to say. If you think you will be nervous or flustered, you can write yourself some notes. If you think you can’t say it out loud try closing your eyes when you speak or give them your notes. Pick a time to talk when you know you won’t be interrupted or rushed.
Please know that you are not alone. I am here to talk if that will help. Post any time.
Kind thoughts to you
