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My husband cheated on me 3 times [trigger warning: abuse]

AvaM33
Community Member
I feel I am in the middle of fire but I cannot save myself. I am independant financially and do not need him. He physically hurt me seriously several times but after one week I can forget everything and just continue the situation. It is 10 years that I am living in this fire.
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Kerrald
Community Member
What makes you stay? Is it enough to put up with this forever?

Lanieeee
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member
Thank you for sharing this. You may feel the way you do right now, but there are ways out. Do you have any relatives that you could move in with? If your husband has abused you, you can call the police and he can be charged. There are ways out. If you stay, you'll only need him more. You need to get out of this situation immediately. You are in a dangerous position and staying will only make it worse. Unfortunately, these types of relationships tend to only get worse and leaving will be the best alternative. Fight the feelings: The facts are what will save you.