Coping with bushfires

Sophie_M
Moderator
Moderator

Beyond Blue would like all individuals accessing our online forums in relation to Australia’s bushfire crisis to know that we are here for them.

If you’re feeling worried, we want you to know that it’s okay and you are not alone.

The impacts of this crisis will be ongoing and everyone will have different experiences, thoughts, feelings and emotions.

Even if you haven't been directly affected by these fires you may still feel sad, overwhelmed, stressed and upset.

We hope that you will use this safe, understanding space to talk, share and support one another on a united front.

It can be difficult to know what to say in times like these.

The forum community have been engaging in discussions that you may find helpful: Are you managing to be ok with all these dreadful bushfires?

You may wish to share what you are doing to help cope, or simply to share your experience with others.

Beyond Blue has developed a dedicated resource about bushfires and mental health, including practical advice about dealing with the emotional impact of bushfires, information about the signs and symptoms of emotional distress, tips for supporting children and young people, and links to several useful websites.

Taking care of yourself:

  • Limit your exposure to social media – it’s okay to have a break and it’s important you make sure you’re not becoming overwhelmed.
  • Speak with our friendly forum community about how you’re feeling
  • Set realistic goals that keep you motivated, but don't take on too much (most people in this situation talk of recovery as a journey not a sprint)
  • Give yourself time

Seeking help when you are in a bushfire affected area:

  • If you require emergency support please contact 000

As a community, let’s help one another through sharing and connecting during this difficult time. This could be by listing links to articles or resources you have found helpful, tips for what is working to help you manage or sharing your thoughts, feelings or experience related to the bushfire crisis.  

Whatever it may be, we're here. 

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Paw Prints
Valued Contributor
Valued Contributor

Hello everyone,

I'm finding the ads the ABC is currently running for its up coming drama set during the bushfires very distressing... even though I haven't lost any property it brings back the fear of having to evacuate not knowing if there will be anything to come home to... am I the only one who thinks it is far too soon to be making a TV drama about events... I won't be watching it.

Paws

Paws I agree about the abc program. I remember when they talked about it in the planning stage whether they would make a dramatic soap opera type program or more of a documentary.
I don’t think I can watch it. Plus the Royal commission report which is important is why I can’t watch the news as the images are triggering.

I suppose everyone is different andI the abc probably wants to let people who were not affected know what happened..
I find the longer time passes the more I am affected because at the time I was on auto pilot.

Everyone who was affected by any bush fires look after yourself and this thread is for you to talk be listened and get support.

I have said before I know covid is important and upsetting to many but I felt as it happened so soon after black summer, people affected by the fires were somewhat overlooked.

Thanks Paws for your timely post.

Quercus
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hi everyone,

I figured I'd write here rather than check the emergency WA map for the billionth time.

Yet another fire here in WA. This time my parents and Nan's town. It is hard being hours away and not knowing what is happening. My family haven't evacuated.

Hubby reads the maps and tells me not to worry, it's the other side of town that is burning. He forgets I grew up there and I have family friends, Uncles, Aunts and cousins who live on the other side of town too.

It's the waiting I hate.

What do others do to cope while they wait for information?

quirkywords
Community Champion
Community Champion

Quercus

the fires are affecting the town where your parents and nan live.

i remember looking at the app bushfires near me I frequently and looking at the

ABC updates. I think all you can do is keep in contact and wait, maybe do something to keep busy.

Thanks Quirky,

It must be hard for you to even think about bushfires let alone reply so I'm grateful.

Mum just told me they are staying and defending. Thankfully they're very well prepared and Dad has all the equipment. But the photos she sent worried me. Even my Nan has stayed on the farm, granted my cousins and other family are there too.

It's just frightening. Doesn't help when hubby is saying just don't worry because they have lots of experience with fires and know what to do. I worry anyway.

Thank you Quirky. Xx

quirkywords
Community Champion
Community Champion

Quercus

You will worry. Fires can be unpredictable. I hope they have a local brigade as back up.
i just feel so much empathy for what your family and others are going through.