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Complex PTSD - What is it and how do we cope?

Just Sara
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

'Complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD; also known as complex trauma disorder) is a psychological disorder thought to occur as a result of repetitive, prolonged trauma involving sustained abuse or abandonment by a caregiver or other interpersonal relationships with an uneven power dynamic.' Wikipedia description..

I think this pretty much sums it up yeah?

I wish I could underline; '..relationships with an uneven power dynamic'. In my own case, C-PTSD was triggered by bullying in my workplace from 2008 until 2014. I developed symptoms such as Anxiety/Panic that grew in severity until a tragic breakdown in 2014. I was forced to medically retire.

Although my history of multiple trauma's and childhood abuse caused specific responses in me from an early age, I thought I was normal and everyone was the same. In fact, a lot of people in my inner circle were.

Decades later, I find out those friends/family members/acquaintances had gone thru their own traumatic situations. So why wouldn't I feel normal around them?

Today, as opposed to the 70's/80's (my adolescence/young adulthood) where abuse wasn't discussed, people have resources to out their pain and confusion in spaces like BB forum or with psychologists, social workers, medico's, psychiatrists and even friends/family.

Treatment has become the 'norm' instead of going it alone which is what many of us here had to do until society caught up with this 'pandemic' (IMO) of psychological disorders.

So, why create a thread dedicated to C-PTSD? Well, stigma and misconception around it's still rife in our society, and people suffering with this horrible disorder and not realising it is a constant.

Your views are absolutely welcome! We really do need to talk about it as consequences of C-PTSD and the benefits of therapy are worthy and an important part of recovery.

Newcomers and current members alike are encouraged to post; old, young, male or female.

Let's pick each other's brain and see where it leads...

Kind thoughts;

Sez

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Guest8901
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi Sez. I think we have crossed paths on another ptsd thread, Pamela's perhaps? Hi. (:

Your new thread just caught my eye and I would like to keep track of the conversation. I'm not able to comment just now though, so I hope thats okay? I was diagnosed with C-PTSD earlier this year.

Amanda

Ggrand
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hello Sez,

Thank you so very much for this thread,

Just tagging for now..

Not doing to good atm, constant crying..going to bed

but def interest in learning how to cope.

Kindness only,

Grandy..

Thanks Amanda and Grandy;

It's an incredibly important issue up for discussion. I'm so glad you both have tagged it.

(For those who don't know how to do this, just post on this thread and it will automatically be placed on your personal 'My Threads' list. The button itself is next to 'New Posts' above public sections and post lists)

There's something I should've placed in my original post...

Post traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is a disorder that can develop after a person is exposed to 'a' traumatic event, such as sexual assault, warfare, traffic collisions, or other threats on a person's life.

To reiterate the definition of C-PTSD;

Complex post-traumatic stress disorder (C-PTSD; also known as complex trauma disorder) is a psychological disorder as a result of repetitive, prolonged trauma involving sustained abuse or abandonment by a caregiver or other interpersonal relationships with an uneven power dynamic.

Seeing the two definitions along side each other provides clear, key differences between them. There's long been confusion and scepticism about C-PTSD saying it's just a worse version of PTSD. However as I've shown, it stands alone in its description.

I'm looking forward to hearing everyone's thoughts..

Sez

Just tagging for now..

geoff
Champion Alumni
Champion Alumni

Hi Sez, I have just seen your thread and would like to join in, the trouble is I'm logging off now.

Will do tomorrow because what happened to me has not only change my entire life but still affects me in certain circumstances and has changed me completely. Geoff.

You're welcome to join in Geoff;

Sending a shout-out to anyone suffering the effects of C-PTSD. As we move along, we'll discuss issues such as; people who self diagnose, symptoms in childhood/adulthood, research, successful therapy/treatment options, goals, coping strategies, health professionals and understanding what your diagnosis means to you and your family.

I'm also interested to know how many active/non active members on BeyondBlue forum have been diagnosed with C-PTSD. Even if you read only, maybe you could drop in with a quick post to help identify numbers.

I look forward to hearing from you...

Sez

Ggrand
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hello Sez,

I have been diagnosed with C-PTSD, cause by a long time, nearly a life time of abusive by family members..Dad, Mum older brother, hubby and so called hubby's friends...

Coping I'm not, especially with so many triggers around daily.. It could take a single word or action that sends me way down extremely quickly into a depth that really is frightening for me..

Im here really needing help badly to help me cope, because I'm really struggling to stay here at times..

Kindness only,

Karen...(Grandy).

Hey Grandy;

It's a short one as I really have to go. Sorry hun..

Could you please have a think about what you feel is the 'base cause' of your triggers. It might be hopelessness, consequences or feeling powerless for instance. It 'needs' to be about you, not your abusers ok.

This is to help identify responses individual to you. Oh, and it doesn't have to be in one word or trigger either. Eg.. I feel intense fear of failure/success when I'm confronted by positive opportunities.

I'll be back tomorrow morning ok.

Sez

Ggrand
Community Champion
Community Champion

Hello Sez,

Thank you very much.

I have an intense fear of some people but all strangers walking towards me, I feel very vulnerable and afraid they might say something to me..

I Feel absolutely useless when I do anything around the home, ie: putting a screw in the wall, just cleaning in general, or gardening, shopping , it makes me feel totally lost like I don't know how to do things. It's hard to explain.

Sez mostly I feel lost,scared, useless and extremely unsure of me and what to do..Scared and useless of just living daily.. I suppose I would say..

Im not sure if this is what you're asking me to tell you.. If not I'm sorry... and I'll try again.

Kind thoughts,

Grandy.