Being scared

[monkey_magic]

Hi everyone,

I decided to start a new thread. I'm sorry about deleting the two I had. Too much info about me. I felt I needed to say sorry to everyone that had written. I have had stalkers and there was too much personal information about me....

I was...being scared

[Guest_9809]

Hi there. No need for apologies, I fully understand your need to remain safe. So good on you for remaining vigilant and being proactive about your personal safety. Good to see you back again too. (-:

Taurus

[james1]

Hey there, it's okay. You've been very helpful here on the forums and I hope you feel like you can still feel safe here.

James

[Zeal]

Hey Guest,

Thanks for your sincerity. Rest assured, I and the others above understand that you did what was right for you. This forum is a supportive place where we don't judge 🙂

Having had stalkers before has clearly had a deep emotional impact on you. If you don't mind me asking, have you talked to someone in your life about this, or to a mental health professional/GP?

As your profile pic is not of yourself, this is already a smart precaution which helps with anonymity. I've been on these forums for nearly 3 years, and I don't mention names, suburbs/cities, or include a photo of myself. Aside from that, I talk about most aspects of my life. Since this is a mental health forum that is designed to be both safe and supportive, there are friendly community moderators who ensure that the conversations remain constructive.

Now that you're starting fresh with this thread, you can write what you feel comfortable sharing. There is no pressure to share things you don't want to 🙂

Best wishes,

Zeal

[startingnew]

hi there and welcome back to the forums 🙂

thats totally understandable what you did

i hope things will begin to improve for you.

and i agree with others you ahve been a big help around the forums 🙂

[monkey_magic]

Hi again,

I' m back...

Thanks for all the replies.

For me it's very important someone in particular doesn't know where I am.

It' s an irrational fear but also a valid one that ppl I have spoken about on the forums could read my stuff about them. I was so scared thinking about it all. I was also so scared thinking about men I've known in the past finding me. Ive decided not to include too much personal info about me or those from the past now just incase they decide to go on here ( highly unlikely). But I want to stay safe.

I have ppl I can talk to for support, in reference to professionals. And you guys.

It's good reading around the forums again and catching up.

[startingnew]

welcome back 🙂