UPDATED: I just feel alone and lost in a new world I don't like
Hi Zetta and welcome to the forums...Paul here..
Thankyou Zetta for having the courage to post..it does take strength..Beyond Blue is a very secure and caring site that you can feel comfortable replying on if you wish of course
First things first Zetta....Well done for actually healing yourself by getting to your doc!
Medication...okay...thats another step forward in your healing process too
Lost and Confused.....Very very common and you have come to the right place Zetta
I am sad that you and your husband have had a hard week....
You have also done well in communicating what you have held for such a long time....That is also a positive step
You are not alone Zetta...there are wonderful and caring people on this forum that can be there for you..
I am sorry that he is not 'talking to you' much....Just a guess but maybe he cant cope as well as you have addressed the issue at hand...?
It is confusing and mentally exhausting Zetta....Please be gentle to yourself now...From what you have mentioned you have made some very good progress in healing your 1) Relationship and especially 2) Yourself 🙂
We are here if you need us..on any matter if you wish to do so
Thankyou again for posting
feel and what you are struggling from.
I'm sure most of us have secrets that we don't want our partner/spouse to know about, even though we are still very close,
so should be blame ourselves for doing so, well that doesn't really matter whether you believe it's right or wrong, but I
suppose if it's something that you feel guilty over, then you have to make a decision that will strengthen and be accepted
in telling your spouse, because this particular secret maybe what is blocking a happy relationship.
If there is love between the both of you, then it can be worked out, and remember that the majority of marriages always have
there us and downs and the time before you both
My worry is how long before you decided to visit your doctor before a diagnosis could be made, but am pleased that you have.
Your journey maybe up and down but please let us ride it with you. Geoff. x
I am sorry that you hubby is not being as supportive as he should be right now..especially even for a simple hug.
I have read your post again Zetta....I feel by you summoning the strength to tell your husband about this matter shows you care about your marriage and him. To this point you have done everything you have. I do hope you find peace in knowing that. His inability to cope is sad...however that is his problem..
You can only do so much Zetta
Here for you