Hi simon , so sorry about your sitch , pretty similar to mine , 20yrs ex and then new love 3yrs later. We were together 19mths and half of that was long distance, different countries.
l'm glad to say Geoff celebs don't do a thing for me so at least that's one problem l don;t have haha.
Simon she's damaged and some of them can't go without a man 5mins and that's why she's with someone already. I know that's not much help and l'm sorry buddy , 6wks for me and gf and l think and wonder and what if's everyday.
Ours was a huge huge thing from day one too , even bigger than when l first met ex wife. And l still dunno if we could have worked it out. She also had some issues , and sadly we're gonna see a lot of that in any women we meet .
but this thing with the new guy won't last , pretty sure of that, no way she coulda found mr right in well under 10mths straight outa your thing so she's doing the can't be without a man thing l'd put money on it.
l guess though if you guys had unworkable issues , maybe you dodged a bullet with her man, l mean there are a lotta bullets to dodge out there from what l've seen .
Hold on and keep on soldering , give yourself time ; guess. Me , l'm living for the future that hasn't been yet myself but prayin there's something good in it that will make this last 5yrs of hell worthwhile. Guess we won't know though mate until the fat ladies sung but , that's what l'm hoping.
Good luck and hang in there, day ata time.
