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i need help please

Jackson1994
Community Member

is there anybody there

i need some help i cant cope with this anymore please help

- jackson

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CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

I feel your anger and frustration. I'm sorry to hear H had been so sick.

It is def unfair that we're being denied and put at risk. The last 5 day lockdown affected me mentally, affected my relationship.

Fingers crossed they get this under control.

Hi Jackson,

Sorry to read you are being so affected by the restrictions. It must be really hard not knowing if you can get to the hospital when you want to go. The restrictions are hard and difficult to work around.

Hope H is a lot better now. Must have been a very concerning time for you. Not being able to get proper care is distressing.

We are certainly living in a very different world! Hope you manage to find ways through this.

She is a lot better now thanks for asking. This was midway through last year.

Im just so upset, how can they justify separating families but international people can come in to see theirs? We can’t see them 6km away but they can travel from overseas for it.
We are in lockdown but planes are flying in still.
But I can’t see my ill newborn baby.

Jackson1994
Community Member
Also I forgot, mental health doesn’t matter, all that matters is you don’t have covid

CMF
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Right here with you Jackson. I know what it's like to have a newborn in hospital. She is in the best hands possible but I know that doesn't make it any easier.

Sending hugs and comfort.

Cmf x

Hi Jackson,

I really am so sorry this lockdown will be affecting you so much. I know this isn't like being there in person, but is it possible for hospital staff to help you connect to your baby electronically?

I know in aged care homes staff can help with either mobile phone hook-ups or lap tops. Is it possible for a hospital worker to at least show you your baby via a screen? I don't know if this is possible or not, but I hope it is for your sake and H's as well.

My thoughts are with you. Kindest regards from Dools

Thanks everyone

they allow one visitor

I can understand why but it doesn’t make it easier

h is still really struggling even before the lockdown it was a really terrifying experience and she was not listened to at all when she had baby a

trying to get a special exemption so we can both visit

Hi Jackson,

This is a really tough time for you. I hope you are able to receive that exemption.

Covid rules and restrictions are difficult to understand at times, especially in situations where you are desperately wanting to see loved ones and people in hospital.

Really hope common sense prevails! Cheers from Dools

Nope, not allowed. Not asking for will to come just want us both to be able to visit

Just caught up with all your news,

So sorry you cant see your baby.

There are many strange rules that dont seem fair

It is such an emotional time for you all.

Angelina is a lovely name .