my wife is dying lung cancer stage 4

[Tommyl]

hi there friend, I am sad to say my wife is on the way to die this morning. Shes in bed and comfortable and I am so sad for her. I am holding her hand. I am very sad and just need to talk to someone please.

[Sophie_M]

Hey Tommy!, welcome to our friendly online community, we are glad you decided to join us here. We are sorry to hear of your current struggle and can only imagine how difficult it must be for right now. Please know that you've come to a safe, non-judgemental space to talk things through and our community is here to offer as much support, advice and conversation as you need. We're sure that a lot of our community members will relate to these feelings and hopefully some of them will pop by to offer you words of wisdom and kindness.
Please stay in touch.
 

[Tommyl]

The breathes are longer apart. I hope shes not in any pain. Im hurting inside for her.Thank you for your kind words.

[Sophie_M]

Tommyl you are most welcome. This is a challenging time for you. If you would like some support now, it might be an idea get in contact with the Beyond Blue Support Service. They are available 24/7 by phone on 1300 22 4636 or on Webchat 3pm-12am AEST on our website: www.beyondblue.org.au/getsupport  One of our friendly counsellors will be able to talk through these feelings with you and can offer support, advice and referrals.
 
Stay in touch.
 

[Tommyl]

I'll call soon as I call the nurse. Thank you for your help.

[Ggrand]

Dear Tommy..

I am so deeply sorry about what your beautiful wife and you are going through...It’s an extremely hard time for you..No words I can ever say will ease your pain...I nursed my husband through cancer and I know how devastating it is for you...

I really am so sorry....

Here when I can be for you dear Tommy..

Grandy..

[geoff]

Hi Tommyl, our heart goes out to you and your dear wife in this most awful time.

Take care.

Geoff.

[Kimmoe13]

Hi there, my father passed away in June of lung cancer. It was very unexpected as he didn't know he had it until 9 days earlier. He first went into hospital the day my daughter was born and never made it back home. I've been looking for some sort of forum to share my experience and for support as it's been unbearably difficult especially being a first time mum. We believe he was stage 4 as well when he passed away. My thoughts are with you and your wife.