Someone very close has left me

user981
Community Member
I was really close with a girl, having a long distance relationship, and everything was going well, she liked talking to me and loved me. We talked a lot every single day and night. In June I noticed she started being a little different, she started going to sleep more late. We used to always call every night, she started to say that she can’t call tonight, or she would sometimes say her phone is stuffing up.

One day, she just didn’t want to talk to me, she didn’t seem enthusiastic to talk and lied about going out when she was at home, I also noticed she stopped sending me snapchat streaks 2 days before this. Later that night I asked why she is being different and she said everything is fine. I then said I love you like we always do and she didn’t respond normally but said “luv you”. Later she said she doesn’t want to be attached to me and it’s more realistic for her to go for someone that lives near her.

A day after this happened, she said she wants to go back to being how we were and doesn’t like this small talk. She mentioned she cried, and cried when I texted her and when I said it didn’t seem like you wanted to talk much or have much to do with me, she said she was overwhelmed and wants to have much to do with me and talk to me. A day later I noticed she was being a little different again in the morning, it’s like she didn’t want to talk again. We continued talking until 2 days after being back together I woke up in the morning to find she removed me off her socials. We were talking normally just the night before this happened, it was a shock.
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M99
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

Hi user981,

I'm sorry for your current situation. How are you feeling about all of this? It sounds as though your relationship is going through a turbulent situation at the moment and that many of the recent events that unfolded were unexpected.

Do you know if there was anything that occurred prior to this leading up to her acting in unfamiliar ways?