Hi Grizzly, welcome here
The grass is greener.... is the very first thing that entered my mind. So lets explore this first
When I was 28 I was single and my friends were married and had kids. I rushed in and married the first girl that I thought I loved. My two friends separated and paid child support and split from their kids. Then it was my turn.
Not good.
With that in the back of your mind consider- how do people meet each other? I have another friend that has remained single- he is now 69yo. But upon examination he has the following history- worked in a office with little contact with other humans, had a controlling parent that watched over his every move, had that parent as a person who rejected his chosen partners and put pressure on him, has depression and confidence issues etc and the list goes on with some people.
My message is- better to be single than marry the wrong one.
Having said that have you tried on line dating. Some say it doesnt work but what have you got to lose. make sure its reputable. You are also entering a point in your life that potential partner might have children. For everyones sake make sure you are compatible for this course. Some are not suitable for step parenting. This happened to me and my kids grew up with "the step mother from hell" as they called her. She never included them on holidays and was mean to them...uncompromising. She was jealous too. That caused too much harm and it dissolved after 10 years.
Join sporting groups. Volleyball, dancing, badmitton. Yoga, aerobics, etc.
Take care. Tony WK
