Hi there Kiwi Girl
Thank you so much for your latest response.
I’m guessing that you’re seeing the doctors to help you through with the things that happened in November – and really, that’s only a couple of months ago, so your feelings, thoughts, emotions would still be very much at the surface and be raw for you. I really hope that the doctors are providing you with some appropriate help (and possible medications) to help you through this current time? Do you feel they are helping?
Do your two mates know what happened and if so, is there “any” possibility that they could perhaps help you out while things are really so stressful and difficult for you?
I’m sorry, as it is so easy to write this, but in truth and in real life, it’s another whole thing to actually put something like this into action; and what I’m talking about is whether there could be some kind of roster system (hope you don’t think me silly for suggesting this) whereby one mate stays one night; and the other the next night; then (another big ask here) the 3rd night, you could go to their place, and 4th night, the other person’s place.
I hope I haven’t gone overboard with this, and though I don’t know you at all, I’m sensing that this is causing you major distress (as it most well should as it would be a terrifying experience for anyone to endure) and I’m just trying to think of ways to help you through this current phase.
Please do write back again KG, with how you’re feeling and what you think of the above; and if not possible, I’ll wrack my grey matter to try and come up with something else for you.
Kind regards
Neil
