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Incessant fear of world events and impact on my children

ExtremelyAnxious2015
Community Member

Hi there,

I am new to this forum so I apologise if this has already been covered by someone else. 

I have a beautiful 6 year old daughter and am currently 5 months pregnant with my second. Over the years I have battled anxiety but right now I feel like it is the worst it has ever been. It started with an innocent enough post on facebook about Nostradamus and his prophecies on WW3. I have never read about N before nor would I typically believe in 'seers'  as such. But this lead me to think about current events, ISIL, Russian and US tensions, Israel & Palestine, global warming etc. To me, in my current irrational mind, WW3 isn't such a silly prospect at the moment. 

 I am constantly worried about something bad happening to my daughter and my expectant child. I think of the most horrible scenarios. It causes me to break down at least 2-3 times a day. I know I cannot control world events and I know that I should only focus on those things that I can control. But with all the uncertainty in the world I don't feel as though my fears are unfounded. I am really scared for my children and not being able to protect them. 

I know pregnancy hormones and all that fun stuff, can cause anxiety and irrational thoughts but I don't ever remember it being this bad. It's effecting my work, my relationship, my life. 

I could really use some perspective and some help. I appreciate any advice. 

 Thank you so much.  

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Onion33
Blue Voices Member
Blue Voices Member

I feel for you. It is hard to use techniques when in the thick of it.

One thing that works for me is:

When my brain has a strange thought, I say "thanks for that. This thought is not helpful".

I learned that the brain scans for threats (this is from the caveman days when it had to be aware of lions etc). These days, it 'misbehaves' and thinks things are threats when they are not. One I understood this, I could separate these thoughts from my normal being.

 

Hi, I also use the thank my brain technique.  I've had a few changes in my daily routine over the last 2 weeks:

a) My son has started prep

b) I have a kitten for the first time in my life

So my brain is in overdrive, not to mention keeping up with all the techniques I have to quiet down the anxiety.  It is simply exhausting.