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Fear and Anxiety and feeling overwhelmed and tired

EJohn
Community Member

I am overwhelmed and unable to cope with life's challenges in my adult life. Example. ( Assignments, exams, work, family, savings and future prospects in life. I am scared that I have missed the bus and I have not hope of recovery.

When my mind becomes active first thing in the morning (when I start to wake up in the morning gradually) around 5am or 5.30. I dream about negative things happening to me. I am very fearful and feel that I want to hide in a safe place as I sense danger from me unable to handle or cope with the difficulties in life and its doom and gloom. I have been feeling like this when I get stressed with normal challenges in life as mentioned above - when I think how I am going to handle a difficult situation ( Exams, assignments, work, family, savings and future prospects in life)

I have been on antidepressants and anti anxiety medications which provide temporary relief ( reduce the symptoms to a extent) but not permanently. I also take TMS treatments.

As a child I grew up in a war zone sometimes fearing for my life.

I feel very tired and helpless. I was told that I needed to build resilience and coping skills but how?

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quirkywords
Community Champion
Community Champion

Ejohn

Weclome to this forum and thanks for sharing your story.I can not begin to imagine the effects you suffered growing up in a way zone fearing for your life.

Do you have a psychologist or a counsellor who has expertise in helping people have your life experience? I think someone who has training in teaching resilience and coping skills would be necessary to help you. ?
Is there someone in your family or community you could talk to.?

By answering your post more people will be able to see your post.

I don't have a counselor but I agree with you that building resilience is the only way out as I have tried other avenues without any success

I don't have any community support as a lot of people in my community have been through war and don't think it's a big issue. I have good support from my family but they don't know how to help